As a teacher, excellence
begins with self-honour. Sometimes we tend not to notice that until we honour
ourselves as teachers, respect will not come our way.
According to
Merriam-Webster's dictionary, self-respect is simply -'a proper respect for
oneself as human being’ It went further to say 'regard for one’s own standing
or position'.
Do you know that you are
not an ordinary teacher but a human being carefully created by God to be a
teacher? Why do you not carry yourself with dignity?
Teacher honour is simply
the respect, value, and importance that you place on yourself and your
well-being as a teacher. It has much to do with your self-belief, how you see and
represent yourself.
Your image and how you
present yourself will go a long way to determine how people will respect you so
it starts with you.
Sometimes when teachers
say that people don’t honour and respect them, my immediate question is always:
Do you respect yourself? Most times this question is left unanswered because
most do not even know how to respect themselves. They believe they are nothing
but ordinary, not worthy of honour.
That narrative has to
change because teaching is a noble profession, and teachers are noble people. Until
you learn to honour yourself, it is rare for anybody to honour you.
A
teacher should respect himself or herself in all dimensions - physically,
emotionally, intellectually, socially, and spiritually. The level of respect
that some of us show ourselves as teachers is one reason why the profession is
not honoured by some people. Many see teachers as poor and the profession as
undignified instead of noble. I want to emphasize that teaching is the most
powerful profession on the planet, and teachers are unique because of the
significant role they play in society across all occupations.
It's important how we
conduct ourselves as teachers. A teacher should act and work with dignity.
Value yourself, knowing that you are fearfully and wonderfully made. Do not
settle for less. Say no to wrongdoing like examination malpractice and other
vices that can be found in the profession.
Be spiritually attuned by prioritizing a
connection with God. It is essential to have a clear understanding of your own
identity and to acknowledge your belongingness, as all aspects of life are closely
linked to one's sense of self. For further insights, refer to our previous
episode on 'Teacher Identity'.
Self-care is essential
for our well-being. It is important to prioritize self-care. A healthy body is
crucial for optimal functioning, so it is important to eat well, exercise, and
get enough rest. Regular health check-ups for eyes, ears, teeth, blood
pressure, and sugar levels are also important.
Additionally, it is
important to dress professionally and present oneself well. The first
impression matters, so it's important not to undermine the profession with a
poor appearance. (Remember, you don't have to
appear expensive to look good). I once had someone question whether I was a teacher or a banker
at a conference because of my professional appearance. I believe it's important
to represent the teaching profession well by dressing and acting
professionally.
Emotionally,
it's important to maintain a positive outlook and high emotional intelligence.
Understanding our strengths and weaknesses and managing our emotions is crucial
for effective functioning as a teacher. With emotional intelligence, we can
relate to others authentically and understand their behaviors. It's important
not to let our past define us and to focus on a bright future.
For more insight on Emotional Intelligence, click on the links below and watch the video
What is emotional intelligence and how does it apply to the workplace?
Why Emotional Intelligence is Important in Leadership
Cast off negative thoughts
and beliefs, and do not settle for less. Be who God says you are, not who
people say you are. Do not stay around negative people, people who tear you
down or abuse you in any way. Surround yourself with people who encourage you.
Do not dwell in the past; move beyond it and do not let it define you. Forgive
yourself to avoid guilt and shame. Refuse to carry the burden of unforgiveness,
as it's too heavy to make a significant impact. Speak positively to yourself
and about your future. Do not belittle yourself.
Get professional help if
you need it; remember your mental health is crucial, without it, your actions
will not be meaningful.
Intellectually
Part of honouring yourself is to improve as a
teacher. Be a lifelong learner and commit to personal and professional growth.
Stay informed, don't become obsolete, and attend trainings, seminars and
workshops. Professional development is a way to honour yourself as a teacher.
When you are uninformed, it can lead to low self-esteem and loss of respect. Be
open to learning and stay teachable, and engage positively with others.
Integrity- Honour your
values and say no to wrongdoing such as examination malpractice, bribery, and
the like. Remember, it hurts to say yes when you need to say no. Lack of
integrity can jeopardize an entire society.
Above all, serve and
give back to society. Do not withhold because
We
cannot cover all aspects of self-honor here, but know that you can act and work
excellently when you respect yourself."